This Holiday Season, Be the You That You Want to Be
Bring peace, presence, and divine order to your holidays this year, just by being you.
Our core fear patterns run deep and can silently take over.
We’ll pinpoint your unique fears and get you started on the path to their gifts, before the holiday environments activate the usual patterns.
The 20 Fears Holiday Intensive
5 live teachings + lifetime access to replays + personalized resources and tools
$197 | We start Monday, November 17th
Hi! I’m Jessica, Human-Design-Informed Courage Coach, Realtor®, mom, wife, daughter, sister, and friend. I know my own fear patterns intimately - I know their names, I can usually sense their upcoming visit, and I have a plan in place for hosting them. Much like that “one holiday guest”, I suppose ;).
I know from experience that just having the plan often isn’t enough. I need to know exactly where I want to go with it and be able to name the components - in this case, my unique fears and the path to their gifts. Add in a sprinkle of courage, and this makes all the difference in navigating those emotionally charged environments before we end up acting like a hot mess, again.
I’m here to make sure you have that powerful combination, too: the name of your unique fears, the path to their gifts, a vision for who you want to be, and a plan in place to make it happen, with a sprinkle of courage to give it max potential for success, so you’re not left wondering where in the world things went off course when the holidays are over.
This work was a huge breakthrough for me. Human Design has helped me understand how God sees me like never before, and I want you to experience that feeling, too. I can’t think of a better gift for you than understanding the beauty of your unique design on the deepest levels. Because you were made exactly as you need to be underneath all the layers!
You’re not failing to be “her”, the holiday version of you that you want to be, you’re just responding to old patterns and fears - let’s rename and reclaim them.
There are 20 fear patterns hardwired into everyone’s design, and they show up uniquely for everyone. During an emotionally charged time like the holiday season, those fears silently take over and influence your nervous system to keep you “safe”. Without the right awareness to access the gift of those fears instead, you can repeat the same exhausting cycles every holiday season.
This intensive helps you finally see and shift the exact patterns and fear-based behaviors that are unique to you. No more hijacking your joy, overriding your boundaries, and feeling out of yourself. No more numbing out all the emotions for fear of the bad ones, feeling anxious that you’ll never be or do enough, and no more wondering if you’ll ever experience the version of you that truly has joy, peace, and community this time of year. Together, we’ll create a path through the fears, so they aren’t what shapes your holiday experience.
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The 20 Fears Holiday Intensive
A 5-Session Journey to Release Mental Pressure, Emotional Overwhelm, and Survival Patterns That Quietly Run Your Holidays
Available in two formats - same content, different pacing - so you can choose what aligns with your system and season. Both options start Monday, November 17th! Remember, replays are always available.
5-Day Rapid Transformation
This journey happens over 5 consecutive days and is ideal if you crave clarity now and thrive with momentum and catalytic breakthroughs.
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You want a powerful win fast
You’re ready to see your patterns and move into action right away
You prefer the intensity of being immersed in the reset over several days
You’re craving accelerated clarity before the holidays hit full-force
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Day 1: quick win with a safe space your nervous system can relax in
Day 3: you’ll be naming your patterns and practicing the path through them
Day 5: you’ll have a layer of the blueprint of you that you can carry into the rest of this year and into next year
Daily video teaching via Zoom with replays
Daily contemplative prompts
Center-by-center decoding
Fear-by-fear breakdowns
Holiday-specific support
Integration tools
Customized Holiday Fear Blueprint and Fear-to-Awareness Workbook
Private community
Lifetime access
5-Week Gentle Integration
This journey takes place over 5 consecutive weeks and is ideal if you crave space to feel and reflect and prefer a slower integration.
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You want time to process emotionally with space for reflection between sessions
You thrive when you have extended time to integrate and apply the work
You’re ready for a deep, layered transformation
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Week 1: quick win with a safe space your nervous system can relax in
Week 3: you’ll be naming your patterns and practicing the path through them
Week 5: you’ll have a layer of the blueprint of you that you can carry into the rest of this year and into next year
Weekly video teaching via Zoom with replays
Weekly contemplative prompts
Center-by-center decoding
Fear-by-fear breakdowns
Holiday-specific support
Integration tools
Customized Holiday Fear Blueprint and Fear-to-Awareness Workbook
Private community
Lifetime access
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The holidays can easily bring up the very fears many women spend the year trying to avoid:
The pressure to keep everyone happy
Fear of disappointing others
Fear of not doing enough
Fear of being misunderstood
Over-giving out of guilt
Silent resentment
Emotional overwhelm and reactivity
Fear of judgment
Fear of repeating the same patterns…again
Many women collapse into old roles, expectations, and emotional pathways and try not to let anyone see the internal struggle.
They carry the emotional temperature of the entire room - even when they’re silently burning out.
Not because they want to…but because their nervous system wants them to survive and stay safe, and fear takes the wheel.
This intensive helps you take it back.
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Our body has nine Centers. Three of them are Awareness Centers and house the 20 core fears that shape:
How you think
How you feel safe (or don’t)
How you process emotions
How you relate to others
How you show up in emotionally loaded moments
Each fear also holds a gift - a way out, a pathway forward, and an inner strength waiting to be accessed.
But you can’t access that gift until you see the fear, the pattern, clearly.
These patterns aren’t just emotional triggers - they shape who you think you have to be.
Until you break them, you keep becoming the version of you built on survival.
This intensive is where we go through each fear and where that clarity begins.
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Conceptualization Center - The Mental Pressure Fears
Fear of chaos, confusion, being wrong, being judged, or not having the answer all live here.
These fears show up as overthinking, self-doubt, and mental rigidity.
Survival Instincts Center - The Instinctual Safety Fears
Fear of failure, the future, the past, responsibility, and time running out are here.
These show up as hesitation, avoidance, overpreparation, and staying small.
Emotional Intelligence Center - The Emotional Fears
Fear of disappointment, intimacy, rejection, silence, and emotional unpredictability are housed here.
These show up as emotional shutdown, people pleasing, or emotional volatility like reactivity or numbing out.
Through this intensive, you won’t just “learn” these fears and gain surface-level awareness.
You will identify exactly which ones affect your holidays most and how to shift them.
This is deep, embodied recognition - the kind that changes how you show up, and your soul will thank you.
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You’ll finally understand why you shift into a version of yourself during the holidays that doesn’t feel like you.
A clear map of your personal fear patterns
Holiday-specific triggers decoded
Emotional responses that no longer overtake you
Deep self-trust and grounded boundaries that you can uphold
A personalized Holiday Fear Blueprint
The awareness to stop fear cycles before they start
A nervous system that feels calmer, clearer, and more grounded instead of like an internal battlefield
You will feel more like the you that you want to be - not the holiday season version of you that your mind and body so often pull forward out of fear.
This work is gentle, but deep. It’s transformational - I know because it has changed my life over the past two years. There are many opportunities for quick wins - but it is overall rooted and contemplative, not rushed.
Who this is for:
Who this isn’t for:
Women who:
Don’t feel seen or feel emotionally misunderstood
Over-give and under-receive
Carry emotional responsibility for others
Shut down or disappear during the holidays
Fear disappointing others or conflict during the holidays
Keep going back to the same patterns that they don’t want to have during the holidays
Feel like the “real me” gets buried every holiday season and want to change that
Women who:
Want fluffy or quick-fix mindset hacks
Want to avoid self-reflection or inner work
Prefer surface-level “how-to” advice
Aren’t ready to explore emotional patterns
Prefer “nice-to-haves” over deep, meaningful shifts
Want to stay safely cocooned instead of living wild and free
“Most people tiptoe through life, hoping to make it safely to death.”
“This is a reset movement, and the work is worth it, I promise.”
FAQs
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Absolutely not - I break down everything in simple, digestible language. Most people feel that this work speaks to their soul, and I don’t want esoteric language to create a border. I want everyone to be able to experience that level of feeling seen, whether you’re a Human Design expert or have never heard of it.
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This is completely different - while the 20 fears do come from Human Design, this material is based on the fear → gift → wisdom transformation path of each fear.
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Both! Each lesson will be delivered live via Zoom, with replays available for those who can’t attend live or want to rewatch. There is opportunity to ask questions throughout, and I will answer them personally via email or audio and in the live sessions (anonymously) if everyone could benefit. Private coaching is available as an add-on towards the end of the intensive.
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Choose the one that feels best for your energy, how your nervous system responds to receiving large vs small information streams, and the season of life you’re in. If you feel that you’ve chosen incorrectly, you can always switch, even if you’re mid-way.
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No. Due to the nature of this work and the amount of time I put into making sure it is valuable and powerful, this is not refundable. I tend to go deep and over-deliver, and I have full faith and confidence that you’ll walk away with value and transformation worth way more.
This holiday season, you
get to show up differently.
Not from fear.
Not from pressure.
Not from emotional obligation.
But from calm, clarity, and strength.
Choose the pace that supports you: 5 days or 5 weeks.
Let’s create space for a perpetual season that reflects your soul, not your fear, and step into the version of you that doesn’t want to collapse under holiday pressure - instead she stands in her truth and writes the story she wants to have this holiday season.